Healthy relationships
- You can find out some of the elements of a healthy relationship
- Read them and reflect about your relationship and experiences
- What should you change and keep in order to have a healthy relationship?
Respect and Communication
- Partners treat each other with respect and understand his/her limits (including for sexual activity)
- Partners should feel to communicate openly and be honest with each other
- Partners should understand each other’s feelings
Independence and privacy
- Partners are allowed not to open up every aspect of their life
- Partners should keep their own hobbies
- Partners can still keep their friendships outside their relationship
- Partners should feel comfortable to express who they are
Honesty and trust
- Partners should feel secure about their relationship
- Partners should be reliable and have confidence in each other
- Partners share their feelings with honesty
- Partners should feel physically and emotionally safe with each other
Respectful sexuality
- Respect one’s body and personal health
- Interact in appropriate ways and with respect
Equality
- Partners should treat each other equally
- Partners should consider of each others’ feelings when talking and making decisions
- Partners should both make decisions about their relationship and both make compromises
Safety
- Relationships should not involve any physical, emotional or sexual violence
- Partners should feel comfortable with each other
Enjoyable
- Partners should have fun
- Partners should enjoy their relationship
Do not forget that you can always talk to your parents or a trusted adult when you have questions about your relationship